One night stands

[mrazntre]

Okay, so has anyone ever experienced one of these? How'd it happen, why did you go through with it, and most importantly, how'd you feel before and afterwards?

(if it's someone you know, it doesn't count).

I'm talking about a complete stranger. hit it and quit it.

[ImrkevinpakI]

not me...no strip clubs in charlotte and if there is...no way...unless its a asian girl.

[karizma]

>> it use to happen a lot when i went to parties and such which involved either drugs or drinking. it was a period in my life where nothing much mattered except forgetting my worries and whatnot. i picked the hottest guy i could find and went in for the kill, making use of a friend's bedroom or bathroom or whatever was free at the moment. the one-nighters filled a void temporarily, but in the end i was always left feeling a bit cold, used, and empty as most one-night stand victims are. then there were the occasional ftf's...the ones that stayed around for seconds, thirds, fourths, etc...those gave me a slightly better feeling than the one-nighters...but the outcome was still the same....then i got me a man....solved all my problems puahaha...

>> hey tre...when was your last one night stand eh buddy? and was she any good or did she lie there like a dead fish? :)

[achtungbaby]

[quote:cfe411b00b="karizma"]then i got me a man....solved all my problems puahaha...[/quote:cfe411b00b]

Men are the answer for everything :D

[wylin]

[quote:953905b764="achtungbaby"][quote:953905b764="karizma"]then i got me a man....solved all my problems puahaha...[/quote:953905b764]

Men are the answer for everything :D[/quote:953905b764]

True that alota girls just base their whole worth on the service they can give a man. =P But im sure sum girls just needa be serviced them selves.

[mrazntre]

my last ONS, was actually my only one. the bitch lied there like a dead fish and it was completely disgusting. i don't think i'd ever do something like that again because it made me feel so nasty and degraded. i even got sick because of it. i regret that shit like a mo fo and i would NEVER do it again. damn. i was fucking stupid.

mebbe i'm being all sensitive about it, but whatever.


btw. it was a chinese chick and i don't even think she knew what a dick was. i was trying to hit it from the back and she just turned around and laid there. WTF! i don't remember much of anything else cuz i was pretty drunk.

[karizma]

>> hahaha how did i know she lied there like a dead fish? *shrug* im psychic...i guarantee all chinese chicks dont lie there like dead fishies...*ahem*...but anyways...i dont think there's one one-nighter that i dont regret...sadness...i want to un-fuck these people.

[wylin]

gosh sy and karizma i guess this serves as a leason for those of us who havent had one nighters. But stuff happens and u learn from it. im sure there was alota major problems behind karizamas one nighters like ussually i notice girls who do that are having or had just had sum kinda traumatic experience and it sends them into a frenzy of just stupid stuff in general. I mean as long as ur alive from it and not permantly scarred its kew. Sumtimes tho stuff like that gives u stuff u and memories u dont wanna remember or have.

So sy our one night stand wasnt that good darn! jk sorry to just lie there like a dead fish. =X or was that you and jai that one night we all got drunk!

and gosh im bored online and at work.

[kboy75]

i've had a handful. not really that exciting except for maybe the last couple, when i got a lil older. the rest were in a drunken stupor.

i find that as women get older they are more sure of themselves sexually and they know what they want or don't want. especially older women either want:

1) long-term or marriage, or
2) some ass

#2 is a good candidate for a ONS. and that[s how the last 2 or 3 have been. It was fun. Just one night. Much better when you are not that drunk and you both know what you are doing. (vs. butt drunk and a rookie) It was what it was. *shrug*

[thaite]

[quote:079c4a3581="karizma"]... i picked the hottest guy i could find and went in for the kill... but in the end i was always left feeling a bit cold, used, and empty as most one-night stand victims are...[/quote:079c4a3581]

I'm curious. If you were the one who initiated things -- "going in for the kill" -- as you say, then how come you left feeling victimized?

[ChinaLama]

It's weird. I'm gonna be 22 in October and I've never had a gf so at least one person i know is even TELLING me to go for one-night-stand like relationships or even hookers, cuz he says I'm too cautious about sex or whatever. But personally, I dun think I can do one-night stands cuz I don't feel comfortable enough to even TALK to people unless I feel I know them somewhat, and that's kinda counter to the idea of a one-night stand right?

[mrazntre]

karizma: been there, done that huh? can i call you Halibut now? :P

let's put our heads together and figure out how to un-fuck people. i think that'll get us a shitload of money. we can market it on ebay or something.

[karizma]

[quote:3a9a22d35d]I'm curious. If you were the one who initiated things -- "going in for the kill" -- as you say, then how come you left feeling victimized?[/quote:3a9a22d35d]

>> well we all know MOST guys are out for some ass, and i go in thinking that im using them for my own pleasure but i come out still feeling used why i feel that way i dont know. i guess because i leave with them a little piece of me and i get nothing from them..im not good at one-nighters. =/.

[quote:3a9a22d35d]karizma: been there, done that huh? can i call you Halibut now?
[/quote:3a9a22d35d]

>> haha i dont get it 0_o.

>> hmm...un-fucking...hey whats the opposite of sex? we'll just bottle that and sell it.

[wylin]

>> hmm...un-fucking...hey whats the opposite of sex? we'll just bottle that and sell it.[/quote]

yah u could sell that to people who gotten more sex then they can chew! and to sy's drunk ass.