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Barbs
08-09-2002, 11:59 AM
i think it all boils down to one thing: Attitude.

The way a guy carries himself speaks volumes. Nothing is sexier than a self-assured man.

what do you guys think?
kasia
08-09-2002, 12:27 PM
yep. attitude that reflects his values.
CrX3183
08-09-2002, 04:10 PM
Originally posted by Barbs@Aug 9 2002, 07:59 PM
i think it all boils down to one thing: Attitude.

The way a guy carries himself speaks volumes. Nothing is sexier than a self-assured man.

what do you guys think?
yea self-assured, that's good...
Too bad alot of us guys have that and women just can't seem to notice <_<
(i know she's out there somewhere, lord just keep her safe until i'll meet her :rolleyes: )
SunWuKong
08-09-2002, 10:38 PM
Originally posted by CrX3183@Aug 9 2002, 07:10 PM
Originally posted by Barbs@Aug 9 2002, 07:59 PM
i think it all boils down to one thing: Attitude.

The way a guy carries himself speaks volumes. Nothing is sexier than a self-assured man.

what do you guys think?
yea self-assured, that's good...
Too bad alot of us guys have that and women just can't seem to notice <_<
(i know she's out there somewhere, lord just keep her safe until i'll meet her :rolleyes: )
on the other hand, i think women can sense confidence in a guy a mile away. i just don't think that is the only thing that will win a girl over. chemistry and compatibility are the most important.



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achtungbaby
08-10-2002, 12:21 AM
Originally posted by Barbs@Aug 9 2002, 11:59 AM
Nothing is sexier than a self-assured man.


Does that mean someone like Bill Gates is the sexiest man alive?
SunWuKong
08-10-2002, 12:53 AM
Originally posted by achtungbaby@Aug 10 2002, 03:21 AM
Originally posted by Barbs@Aug 9 2002, 11:59 AM
Nothing is sexier than a self-assured man. &nbsp;


Does that mean someone like Bill Gates is the sexiest man alive?
hm? money doesn't automatically mean self-assurance. heck for all we know, bill could be really paranoid about losing his money.
Barbs
08-10-2002, 03:44 AM
Originally posted by achtungbaby@Aug 10 2002, 08:21 AM


Does that mean someone like Bill Gates is the sexiest man alive?[/quote]
i didn't say money. tho i think in some men, money serves to compensate for other shortcomings. however, self-assurance is just something that a man has or doesn't. it's in the walk, the attitude, the way the talk and carry themselves. it's not about what's in their bank account, or what they wear or how much is in their wallets. au contraire, money flashing is a turn off. it's about confidence and of course, chemistry.
Arex
08-10-2002, 04:39 AM
Originally posted by Barbs@Aug 10 2002, 03:44 AM
i didn't say money. tho i think in some men, money serves to compensate for other shortcomings. however, self-assurance is just something that a man has or doesn't. it's in the walk, the attitude, the way the talk and carry themselves. it's not about what's in their bank account, or what they wear or how much is in their wallets. au contraire, money flashing is a turn off. it's about confidence and of course, chemistry.
So what if Bill Gates was extremely confident in himself. Could you actually see him as attractive?

Alex
Saiko
08-10-2002, 09:40 AM
Some attitude, confidence, wit (I like a guy that can put up a challenge in a battle of wits), and intelligence and smarts (that stuff should keep him from being too cocky, arrogant, or stupid; like, not going overboard; that can be hard sometimes for people). I fall for sweetness and thoughtfulness. Being artistic is a bonus. Appearance of course. You can't forget that. But I'm not shallow or anything. You have to admit that appearance plays a part in an attractive man. That includes how he holds himself. I prefer a good posture over a slouchy guy that seems introverted.
edit: I forgot fun and adventurous. How could I forget that? I can never stand boring people at all. I always need fun people with a good sense of humour. Otherwise, no matter how attractive he is, it wouldn't go well.



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SunWuKong
08-10-2002, 10:30 AM
question

would "the way he carries himself" have to include how he dresses? is it possible for a man with no fashion sense to "carry himself" well?
achtungbaby
08-10-2002, 11:47 AM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Aug 10 2002, 12:53 AM
Originally posted by achtungbaby@Aug 10 2002, 03:21 AM
Originally posted by Barbs@Aug 9 2002, 11:59 AM
Nothing is sexier than a self-assured man.


Does that mean someone like Bill Gates is the sexiest man alive?
hm? money doesn't automatically mean self-assurance. heck for all we know, bill could be really paranoid about losing his money.
Yeah, but I think it's easier to get self-assurance than to get real wealth.
achtungbaby
08-10-2002, 11:48 AM
None of the females have mentioned physical attributes...
Barbs
08-10-2002, 05:05 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Aug 10 2002, 06:30 PM
question

would "the way he carries himself" have to include how he dresses? is it possible for a man with no fashion sense to "carry himself" well?
one would hope that someone who carries themselves well also has fashion sense. at least to look presentable. it's like when a woman has class...she just does or doesn't.
tapestrybabe
08-10-2002, 05:10 PM
Originally posted by achtungbaby@Aug 10 2002, 02:48 PM
None of the females have mentioned physical attributes...
that's because its more about personality...
SunWuKong
08-10-2002, 05:15 PM
Originally posted by Barbs@Aug 10 2002, 08:05 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Aug 10 2002, 06:30 PM
question

would "the way he carries himself" have to include how he dresses? &nbsp;is it possible for a man with no fashion sense to "carry himself" well?
one would hope that someone who carries themselves well also has fashion sense. at least to look presentable. it's like when a woman has class...she just does or doesn't.
hmmm so fashion sense is very important. gah, that's something i have to work on.

so would dressing well be considered a physical attribute? and another thing, some people (guys and girls) don't really have the body to look "well-dressed". i mean sure you can dress well even if you're really short and stubby, but it helps alot if you're not.
Saiko
08-11-2002, 11:38 AM
I wouldn't want a guy that dresses in a suit and tie (though that can be pretty sexy if it's not done all the time) nor do I want a guy that dresses in greasy, sweaty, dirty clothes. It'd be nice if they could dress themselves nicely (skateboarder clothes!) and have good grooming habits. Not the 2 years in the bathroom kind of grooming habits though. That'd be too much.
princess
08-11-2002, 03:15 PM
i fall for guys with nice eyes and a great smile...awww. their eyes tell all and if they smile easily then i can tell theyre somewhat easy going
karizma
08-11-2002, 06:43 PM
>> confidence is incredibly sexy. in fact its a must-have. who wants a guy who walks with his head down and needs constant reassurance that he's good enough to date you?

>> as for physical attributes...nice smile...a stylish hair-do...big eyes [not like goldfish eyes or anything but ones that arent too...squinty? haha] fashion sense can make or break a guy's looks. if he dresses like he just came back from the gym all the time he'll be labeled as a scrub. scrubs arent exactly on my "to-date" list.

>> cockiness, guys who flaunt their possessions make we want to turn lez.

>> intelligence ranks right up there with confidence. i dont like talking to walls which is what talking to a guy w/o a brain is like. outgoing-ness is good. a guy who can make me laugh has an easier time making his way into my heart than a guy whose serious all the time.
SunWuKong
08-11-2002, 07:36 PM
Originally posted by karizma@Aug 11 2002, 08:43 PM
>> confidence is incredibly sexy. in fact its a must-have. who wants a guy who walks with his head down and needs constant reassurance that he's good enough to date you?

>> as for physical attributes...nice smile...a stylish hair-do...big eyes [not like goldfish eyes or anything but ones that arent too...squinty? haha] fashion sense can make or break a guy's looks. if he dresses like he just came back from the gym all the time he'll be labeled as a scrub. scrubs arent exactly on my "to-date" list.

>> cockiness, guys who flaunt their possessions make we want to turn lez.

>> intelligence ranks right up there with confidence. i dont like talking to walls which is what talking to a guy w/o a brain is like. outgoing-ness is good. a guy who can make me laugh has an easier time making his way into my heart than a guy whose serious all the time.
hmm i'm pretty confident... and i don't think i'm dumb... definitely not cocky. so i guess all i'm missing is the fashion sense and the nice haircut. i am sporting the "almost no hair" hair-do right now. i like it because i don't have to do shit with it. :)
karizma
08-11-2002, 07:38 PM
[QUOTE]i am sporting the "almost no hair" hair-do right now. i like it because i don't have to do shit with it. [QUOTE]

>> what a lazy bum =)
CrX3183
08-11-2002, 10:04 PM
Hey!!! what's wrong with looking down when u walk??? I look down when i walk from time to time, only because i don't want to step on something... <_<
deez nuts
08-12-2002, 02:29 PM
All these demands and requirements you women want! Oh the humanity! :blink:



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princess
08-12-2002, 05:42 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Aug 12 2002, 09:29 PM
All these demands and requirements you women want! Oh the humanity! :blink:
hehe yeah isnt it great?

i forgot to mention that someone with manners (opening the door for me, giving me his jacket, etc) reallie adds on points :)
achtungbaby
08-14-2002, 02:03 AM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Aug 12 2002, 02:29 PM
All these demands and requirements you women want! Oh the humanity! :blink:
I think that's my new maxim.
artsfartsyjanet
08-15-2002, 08:07 AM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Aug 12 2002, 04:29 PM
All these demands and requirements you women want! Oh the humanity! :blink:
Mind you not that guys place demands on what a woman "ought" to look and carry themselves too. :)



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